can a girl ask a guy out? need help

[jfenn86]

hey,

I have a huge crush on this guy

I am 21 and like a guy who is about 4 years older than me

we both used to work together and now he has his own buisness so we both work for different companies,

my friend said his single, should I ask him out?

we have known each other for 1 year now :)

please help

[Watcher]

Definitely go for it if you feel that way about him.
I don't see what the problem is and you are going to be unhappy if someone else gets in before you. :)

You have done a police check on him, haven't you? :p

[Nook]

Only one way to find out.......Go for it :boonie:

[SHY]

It's the 21st Century and things have changed for good and bad, but I say ask him out. No one thinks it's a bads thing as far as I know, and it shouldn't always have to be the guy doing the asking or females will get no where sometimes. :D

Go for it jfenn. :boonie: Let us know how you go if you want. :D

[Las]

yeah its normal now for girls to ask guys out. guys get shy and uncertain aswell.

ive asked a couple of guys before. :p

[ASTG]

i dont see why not, personally i like it when girls make the first move, though recently im having a bit of trouble, lovely young lady, asked me out, we went out several times, had a lovely night and now she wont return any of my calls, whenever i do get to speak to her she says, sorry cant go out on this night, working, out with friends, blah blah blah, so my advice is go for it, but call the man back (though not too often let him call you as well....), just dont go for a one night stand.... it hurts... /me is not a slab of meat

[FaerieKitteh]

I did it.

Go for it if your not chicken...

[tuesday]

i dont see why not, personally i like it when girls make the first move, though recently im having a bit of trouble, lovely young lady, asked me out, we went out several times, had a lovely night and now she wont return any of my calls, whenever i do get to speak to her she says, sorry cant go out on this night, working, out with friends, blah blah blah, so my advice is go for it, but call the man back (though not too often let him call you as well....), just dont go for a one night stand.... it hurts... /me is not a slab of meat

Are you giving advice or asking her in your subtle way for a date? :dD

Go for it jfenn......you could always start out with a movie.:)

[ASTG]

Are you giving advice or asking her in your subtle way for a date? :dD


howd you get that from my post???

were i to ask somebody out thered be nothing subtle about it, im a man without a groove, i have no tact, i simply go up, have a bit of a chat, invite them out.... or reverse into their car and get their phone number.... (happened once, didnt work out too well)

[tuesday]

howd you get that from my post???

were i to ask somebody out thered be nothing subtle about it, im a man without a groove, i have no tact, i simply go up, have a bit of a chat, invite them out.... or reverse into their car and get their phone number.... (happened once, didnt work out too well)

:dD:dD

I asked a Guy out once - I didn't know he was Gay.:(

[Lord Smelly]

:dD:dD

I asked a Guy out once - I didn't know he was Gay.:(
:dD

You appear to ask magpies and snails out a lot these days Tues

[Groggypoo]

YES! If only there were more like you.

[Lizard Drinkin]

Exactly, even if he's not interested or available he will definitely be impressed. ;)

[ASTG]

Just go visit him at work sometime and say
"So, whats a chick like you doing in a dump like this?"

[Lizard Drinkin]

"My sweet, did it hurt? When you fell from heaven?" :(

[tuesday]

"My sweet, did it hurt? When you fell from heaven?" :(

You didn't get to go out much did you Lizard?

[Las]

Just go visit him at work sometime and say
"So, whats a chick like you doing in a dump like this?"

yeah nice way to pick a guy up by calling him a chick. :rolleyes::dD

[tuesday]

yeah nice way to pick a guy up by calling him a chick. :rolleyes::dD

Maybe thats what I should have called the Guy I wanted to go out with.:(

[ASTG]

hey if a girl showed up to my work and asked
"Whats a chick like you doing in a dump like this" i would be smitten, swept right off my feet, but im fairly slutty so its not that hard to sweep me off my feet..... (they call me the big easy)

[tuesday]

.... (they call me the big easy)

:dD
We know!!